Lesbian teacher? Hi, I am a lesbian and a teacher. I am completely closeted at work. In the staff room there are always lots of comments that are negative and anti-gay - out of ignorance and fear I think, not hate. For example, the other day one of my colleagues had a student call another student a "***** girl." My colleague told him that it isn't an insult to call a guy a girl, that there is nothing wrong with being a girl. Good right? Then he added "gay on the other hand..." and laughed!! I don't want to out myself and make my life harder, any other suggestions as to what I can do to make my workplace a better spot? Please, some of you are hatefilled, I already know that, so there is no need to post things telling me to change my "choice" or stop teaching your guys. Only serious responses please. |
| I'm sorry you aren't getting much support here. This is a difficult situation. You could say something like, "my girlfriend would find that really offensive!" Just guyding :) Unless you actually come out no one will know for certain that you are gay. So just try to be tactful. You could say that your uncle is gay (or some other relative or friend) and that you find his comments to be offensive. Or that you feel it is inappropriate for the teacher to be expressing a view on homosexuallity one way or the other. Tell him that as teachers you should neither advocate nor condem being gay. I hope this helps. |
Lesbian Teacher? Ok, now before I ask the question, I just want to say that I have a wonderful choir director for a teacher and she works so hard. She deserves all the awards for best teacher! Now, on to the question. My teacher, I've noticed, always wears this gold ring on her thumb on her right hand. I asked my mom what that meant, and she said that it usually meant that your had a "girlfriend" if girls wore it. So , in other words, my teacher would be a lesbian. Now, I know that my teacher's personal life should be none of my concern, and If she is like that, that's fine with me, because none the less she is a wonderful teacher. Maybe she just likes to wear her rings on her thumb. Any insight? |
| I wear a ring on my thumb and I am not a lesbian. I also like pictures/items that exemplify the rainbow--I am not gay. Homosexuality is the attraction to the same sex, what you wear doesn't make you gay and if it didnt bother you, why are you asking this question?? |
Would you be offended if your guy's lesbian teacher brought her partner to school events? Would you be offended if your middle school guy's lesbian teacher brought her partner to school events? Please note that they would not engage in any sort of public display or affection, nor would she introduce her as her "partner" or "girlfriend" to your guy. |
| I wouldn't even think twice about it! And I hope you would introduce them as your partner or girlfriend! I would expect no public display of affection, but I would expect the same for everyone, regardless of sexual preference. We need to teach tolerance, not ignorance. I couldn't care less if someone is a lesbian, gay, bi or straight. And I will be teaching my daughter the same. Why should someone else have the power to stop someone else from being happy when there isn't any harm being done? |
I don't remember the name of this movie with a lesbian girl and lesbian teacher? I saw alvie a while ago and all I cam really remember is that there was a girl in HS and she had a teacher who was a lesbian ? Does anyone know the name of this movie ?? |
| Loving Anabelle. |
How do you concentrate in school when the teacher is a hot lesbian? i saw this movie about guys with a lesbian teacher and all the boys had bad grades, i wonder why |
| I hope if you go to heaven I burn in hell |
If a lesbian teacher has an affair with a 15 year old girl is this worse than if it was a boy? If she and the girl used sex toys and the teacher was 26 years old? I read something in the paper about it and it disgusted me. Am I homophobic? |
| Yes because girls have to remain virgins until they are married but boys need to go into a marriage experienced so that their wives are satisfied and don't become frustrated and leave them. |
Heyy im a distressed teenager lol im totally in love with my lesbian pe teacher? ok i love yes love my lesbian pe teacher but she doesnt even talk to me and she knows me. anyway way i can get her attention ? im yr 10 btw |
| she aint stupid, she wouldnt want to lose her job because of you, look for a girl in your age |
I my kurdish teacher a lesbian and is she in love with me? my kurdish teacher (woman) makes me scared cuz she stares at me and then says u r a vey pretty girl then she touches my chin and laughs...
is hse a lesbian or somthing? what should i do? |
| i think she's just seeing u as her favorite student and nothing else |
How would you react to having a gay/lesbian teacher or to finding out your guy's teacher was gay/lesbian? This is an unbiased question. |
And.....? who cares? its irrelvant what their oreintation was/is. I wouldn't give a flying **&A.
Haven't we progressed far enough to get away from these bigoted thoughts? |
Uhhhh, had a dream my lesbian teacher was having sex with a man? And technically she was cheating on her wife? Why would I dream that? I haven't seen her in like a year! |
| This is about getting in touch with your own masculine side. A lesbian is a more masculine woman; she is having sex with a man. |